I Don't Really Like My Parents Because They Don't Accept Me For Who I Am

Опубликовано: 13 ноя 2018
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Buddy never really liked his parents, and they never truly got along. They argued and disagreed and butted heads over almost everything. They didn't see eye-to-eye on politics, to religion, to lifestyle and how to raise good healthy happy kids.
Buddy is an atheist, while his parents are very devout Muslims. Buddy is very liberal, while his parents are very conservative. And, Buddy is also unapologetically gay, while his parents, not surprisingly, are extremely homophobic.
But, even though on the inside it was really clear that he didn't get along with his parents, he was never very public or vocal about his disagreements with his parents.He still needed a roof over his head, and food to eat, and money in his pocket, and he was afraid that if he shared who he really was and what he really believed too strongly they would kick him out of the house, maybe even disown him.
Because of that, he formed what looked like a good relationship with his parents, but it was totally fake and artificial - on the inside, he just didn't get along with them. They saw him as being practically perfect, a good and trustworthy kid, but Buddy saw that his parents were really flawed.
His mom liked to hold grudges, was very quick to judge people, and liked to enforce really old fashioned gender roles, like boys should do yard work and take out the trash and that girls only belonged in the kitchen and were destined to become subservient housewives. And his father was so invested and distracted by his work that he never formed and real bonds with his children.
He was also upset at the way his four sisters were treated. His parents wouldn't allow his sisters to have any friends over. They weren't allowed to have phones, or do any extra curricular activities, or drive once they reached the age where they could legally get their licenses.
And it was even worse with Buddy, especially when he tried to come out to them and tell them he was gay - twice. The first time, his parents begged him to date girls because they saw his coming out as a real threat to them. The second time he tried they just threw out a slew of insults and homophobic falsehoods ranging from the idea that gay people were in fact mentally ill, to the idea that it was a simple choice and he was just making the wrong one. They threatened to disown him and told him he would be a failure in life unless he "fixed himself."
This all made him so unhappy and he imagined that he would be under the control of his parents for the rest of his life. So, he felt he had to continue to pretend to be the perfect little straight Muslim boy in the house, dating girls and praying and the rest. He didn't think much of it, had been doing it pretty much his whole life, but when he finally confided in his friends they saw it for what it was, miserable and very, very unhealthy. They asked him to imagine what he would be and how he would feel if he was far enough away from them that they couldn't watch his every move, and judge and control him.
That was a turning point for him and, realizing his parents were more like prison guards than anything else, he thought of the farthest place he could go without them having a negative impact on him and still be successful and thrive as a young gay man.
After doing a little bit of research he concluded that California would be the best place for him -- a thriving LGBT community, a ton of diversity and acceptance, and on the other side of the country from his toxic family life and parents. So, he applied to a few schools in California and, was accepted to attend UCLA! It was one of the happiest moments of his life.
His parents were hesitant about it at first, because of how far away it was, but they were happy to have him go to such a highly acclaimed school - that's mostly what they cared about.
Since moving to Los Angeles Buddy has never been happier. He is part of a really diverse community with amazing friends, endless support, and a great education. Even though he returns home on Holidays and has to pretend, just like he used to, he is so happy to be out of that toxic house and on his own.
His next wish is for his sisters, that they will recognize the truth about their parents, follow in his footsteps, and escape!
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    • Hello, Humans. TERRANCE OUT

    • “storybooth” thats right!!!

    • Why is this on trending this is stupid asf

    • +Hip høp Remix nobody is asking you to "like" gay. Just understand that being gay is not a choice. If gay stuff irks you then you dont do gay things with other guys lol

  • Remember guys, liberals support both of these groups saying both are perfect without criticism.

  • When religion supervenes loyalty and family, it is cultish, in the pejorative sense. In fact, positivists are claiming a right to do this in the West in the name of science, and it is wrong

  • Yup that’s Islam for ya.

  • OH GOD MAN NO CALIFORNIA IS ON FIRE

  • i hink that you betrayed on them cause your parents just wanted to be a good and respectful man

  • I’m not saying I don’t accept the LGBT community, you can be whatever the hell you want, I don’t care. What pisses me off is when people try to make it into a political sob-story to get others to feel pitiful. I swear people nowadays are so sensitive to every single little thing in life. When you get out in the real world, people won’t agree with every single thing you do. You guys need to accept that and stop being crybabies whenever somebody doesn’t agree with your personal opinion, because I’m entitled to mine just as much as you are.

  • I am Muslim, and being Muslim is so great!

  • oh no im gay feel sorry for me

  • *DON'T FORGET TO THUMBS DOWN THE VIDEO*

  • Hmm...i live in a muslim family... My parents aaaaaree quite strict.... Well... This one arebthe worse parenting story ive heard tbh... I do like the story but the parent, wow. My parents didnt really treat me like that... Well, i heard that being a parent in Islam is very strict... I gotten caned before.. It hurts.. But,.. I dunno... :p

  • #1 Trending, Nice RU-tv truly the non biased broadcast system out there; totally doesn't put bad Donald Trump press, sponsors democratic politicians and flags other political ideological videos on it's own "Free speech" site. If in the constitution it states that the United States has free speech it doesn't impact major companies such as Google to keep free speech in its own places such as RU-tv controlled by their own likening.

  • His sisters will never be able to leave. They’ll be married off with no education. And basically buddie the guy just ran away from his problems. You’ll have to face your parents someday. What are you going to do then? People like you are cowards.

  • Also WTF ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT making them obedient house wives there is practically no set of muslim parents that, want their girls to become that. The parents just want to raise a smart, well respected, and faithful. ( No father wants to raise a man salve, they want to raise doctors and engineers get the fk out of hear).

  • This video is so misleading, please if you are a Muslim, don't follow this video. It potrays Islam as a harsh religion but it is actually very beautiful and if it forbids you from some act there is beneficial reason behind it, and don't support LGBT. I'm a girl and an 18 year old and belong to a Muslim family, when I was 13 14 I believed I was a lesbian and had a relationship. I was so sick at that time and strongly influenced by this stupid media, I then studied my religion and I've asked forgiveness from God and I'm straight now. We all are born straight, get this shit in your head.

  • I’m just here to say stop this bullshit!!! Live your life!!! Stop trying to make people accept who you are. Stop trying to worry about what other think. I just click on this video just to write this. Not gonna watch the video because I’m just tried of people trying to please other

  • I feel so bad for the parents:(

  • slug story!

  • Im muslimmm

  • This video is many things. Serious, deep, sad, heartbreaking, etc...........BUT ITS NOT A TRENDING VIDEO. Look at the growth, this video is barely getting any views compared to the others, yet it’s #1??!!??!! RU-tv is clearly trying to push their agenda and force feed shit they WANT us to watch

  • What he said about his parents is what the media show us to to brainwashing us. The girls belongs in the kitchen? Come on how lame is that? Just to make your parents look bad and get the viewers support? Your parents gave you everything, from the love to the support nobody will ever give you, just because your "Gay" your parents are evil for not accepting it? Grow up dude. And good luck with those "new friends", I hope they'll give you the same love your parents did for you.

  • so this kinda of TRASH is trending

  • Fake relationship? Your future is looking pretty dim with that attitude towards the people who have provided for you. 🤔

  • That kid is a fgt

  • My dog doesn't like me cause I'm gay *crab rave*

  • looks complicated .

  • I'm a muslim and I've been taught that loving the same gender is not wrong, but having sex with the same gender is wrong. his parents just don't want him to do the wrong thing as a muslim.

  • Hello

  • Same but I’m not gay

  • The purpose of this video is to Persuade kids to do whatever they want even if their parents dont agree , especially Muslims and as a muslim I have only one thing to say: *nothing in ur WHOLE life will succeed as long as ur parents arent satisfied with you*

    • This is meant to muslims only and if your not muslim you dont have any thing to do here .

  • Congrats... you take dick in your ass. All of these videos make it seem like the LGBT community is some unknown underrepresented community and people can’t seem to accept it. There’s a mandatory gay character in every show, movie etc. people need to stop acting like they are special facing extreme prejudice... go on with your life. If someone makes jokes or calls you names... just tell them to sleep with one eye open or you will stick your dick down their throat and I bet they will stop making fun of you

  • *RIP STAN LEE* Can this get the most likes and thumbs down the video.

  • Oregon more gay.

  • Hmm I can tell this video is fake because in the quran it says be peaceful in world do not hate other people for who they are.And no Muslim in the world has done a gay protest

  • ... Love it

  • I would have ran away

  • اَسْتَغْفِرُ اَللّهَ الْعَظِیْمَ the end is near, let's repent everyone. this ain't a hate comment, this is what i thought, thanks.

  • I’m muslim and also my family but my mom is kind

  • This channel is always on trending! It isn't because it is a story about being gay. But honestly, why does that matter?

  • *not all Muslim patents are like that and they are right because in Islam we have our ruls and believes and since ur muslim u MUST do them without complaining*

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  • Who cares

  • My parents may get on my nerves sometimes, but I would never say or even think that I don't like them. Typical Liberal

  • I don’t know why but I hunk his parents is right to me

  • "abusive"?? I feel sorry for people who are actually being abused! He was not abused! He was told off but NOT abused! He HAD money, he HAD food, he HAD nice place to live.. and so on. What part of this was "abusive"?

  • If you can't leave, it is a cult. Even if your parents belong to it. Islam, Jewish, Evangelical. Buddhist, Daoism, Scientology, 12 step group. If you can't leave and be accepted, in the pejorative sense, it is a cult.

  • I relate to your story so much but, you used education to escape. . . Well shit

  • What a disgusting human being. Keeping up a fake relationship cuz it’s beneficial to you? I hope that being a professional victim brings you more happiness then having the love of your parents. Jesus man. What a dirt bag. Everyone flag this scumbag

  • Wow you are a bad kid

  • It's cuz your *GAaaaAaAAAAAaaaAAy*

  • This video is horrible.

  • WELL DONE 1st trending

  • Congratulations for being #1 on trending

  • 1. Felkapott hogy????

  • Actually I am sure your parents wanted the best thing for you And what you are doing right now is really bad

  • NUMBER 1 ON TRENDING!!

  • You talk so highly of yourself in the first half. "I was perfect, but they were awful. They were dumb as fuck. Also, I'm a liberal."

  • This kid is so unlucky, he was blessed with a beautiful religion Islam and he didn't want to love god but decided to follow these stupid people of the world calling themselves liberals. And you know what gay people are gonna end up in Hell and I'm not scared to say anything against stupid LGBT community. And you think you know more that your parents??

  • Your parents know what’s right for you ........ They are trying there best to show you wants right and what’s not ...... and just go and say that they are bad . What type of human beings are you !

  • Gay people burn in hell

  • How do you expect your parent to accept your gender when you can’t even accept yourself for who you are?

  • I am the opposite with my parents. Can't understand why a wall is not dividing Central and North America. Dumb Ass liberals think drug abuse can be cured without fighting the supply from the Mexican drug cartels

  • I know ur parents are hard on you but......idk I still think u should know that they just want something good even if it is different from your perspective I don't think they ever mean what they said after all at the end of the day you are still family right...? 😮 but I'm glad you're brave enough to be yourself 😘

  • I wonder why this number 1 on trending and a trailer for Pokemon and Toy story 4 aren’t.

  • Your parents raise you since you were little teach you about faith gives you a family a freedom to go to school And more You dump your parents just because they do not think like you do. You a disrespectful and a disappointment even for the lgbtq community. You argue with your parents All the time Not thinking you slowly crushing they’re heart to pieces. Anyway how the *F* this is number 1 ob trending.

  • I'm Muslim

  • my parents are Muslim ...i am too ... and they treat me like a prince ❤️and i am 20 years old ....❤️ they literally treat me like a little prince so lucky to have them

  • I agree with his parents This boy will never understand the grace he lived The food is on the table Good physical condition His parents live together Most importantly, they care about him just because they care about him they are evil!!

  • okay, so how about everyone berating conservatives for having an opinion too huh? its not just gays, people other than whites or liberals, yet youtube loves to show only this side of the spectrum. this happens to both sides and i see nothing about the constant shaming of conservatives, straights or whites for being who they are. have some respect for both.

  • i agree to your parents because i hate atheists

  • If I could dislike this more than once, I would. This video has so many bad messages, that you should escape your parents. Let’s be real, all your parents wanted was the best for you, regardless of their own beliefs. This is the type of extreme liberal propaganda that is given to us by youtube

  • No this deserves to b teending numb. 1! Future gen needs break the stigma and live YOUR life not someone else's. Im sure they're miserable living their parents life ams im glad ur happy

  • Ok

  • u r dumb disrespectful kid

  • Will i don't wonder why it's on trending because they are trying to ruin the pictures of Muslims anyway i think that the guy is wrong

  • I’m personally Christian, but I still support LGBTQ I’m personally not apart of it but it’s my families belief that you must support people. it’s just my personal opinion on things. You should support other people’s way in life. I won’t be responding to homophobia’s on this but yeah. Have a nice day everyone ^^

  • Fuck you kid. You are the wrong one. Bitch you are a man,act like one.I hope you die a horrible death you lousy piece of human garbage.

  • *GaY wOw ThAtS cOoL*

  • The Same Thing happened to me I wanted to chase my dream to became a underground rapper and audition for American got talent yet my family didn't expect it . They thought it wasn't a promising career or a waste of time. I was heart broken because writing down lyrics was escape from reality I wanted to be famous and become a legend yet They have me working at dead end job. I lost my passion for music yet Still fight for my dream even it means leaving my family.

  • Um well I guess u are from india and Im from there too or maybe pakistani but I'm a hindu and why does everyone ask whether I'm a girl or boy and last words I'm a GIRL!!😣😣 👱 👗 👠👠

  • WHERE YOU ARE YOUR PARENTS ARE ALWAYS THINKING ABOUT YOU....thats because they love you

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  • Hello, Humans. Did you know? A one-legged man reassured London’s first escalator users The first escalator on the London Underground system went into operation at Earl’s Court in 1911. On its first day of operation, passengers who had never seen such a thing before were naturally apprehensive. To calm their fears, it is said that a one-legged Underground employee, William ‘Bumper’ Harris, rode up and down to demonstrate its safety - although there are suspicions that this story may be a myth. Harris was later clerk of works on the project to install escalators at Charing Cross when the remains of an ancient oak tree were discovered during the excavations. This was used to make furniture for the admiralty, but also an ornamental walking stick for Harris, which was presented to him in 1913. The stick and Harris’s pocket watch are now housed in the London Transport Museum. TERRANCE OUT

  • Trending videos are political propaganda

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  • Interesting. Pretty bluntly calling Muslims homophobic and sexist. ...gets away with it because he’s gay? I mean they are but the rest of us have to pretend we don’t know it.

  • Man you making use look like shit.

  • Gay people aren't normal.

  • My parents are same but they don’t let me study in other country.

  • When did having both parents, food on the table, a roof over you head, education and the occasional parental advice become such a bad thing? Count your blessings

  • How did this get on #1 Trending?!?!

  • Gay

  • Liberal Athiest and gay. Please understand that those are all "fads" now a days. Lol wow of course welcome back to the Twilight/Trending zone

  • #Pride #LGBT im Asexual

  • Well its not like they are a horrible parents.. It's their belief that really toxic. Not in religious sense. Just about the whole gay and pursuing dream thing. I can relate to this video. A LOT. Thanks for sharing the story :')

  • Why is this first on trending, nothing in contrast that is quite traditional, family-oriented, Christian/Muslim/Protestant/Jewish/Etc. , or conservative would be in the top 10 of RU-tv's Trending list? If there has been such a video then I stand corrected and I apologize but it seems unfair that even I a Hispanic Latino Moderate Democrat who is a teen in high school as an upperclassmen can tell the injustice and inequality between perspectives. My Grandparents, Parents, Aunts, and Uncles were immigrants and both my parents have become naturalized citizens since then. This is trying to manipulate perception and it's very horrifying how easily the right is shut out from such an open and diverse website. RU-tv is a great place to share ideas, not conform to them or force them upon other people. I understand the message and can empathize with it, but I still feel its wrong to make sure only one side of a discussion is heard. What happened to everyone's voice matters?

  • I hate these parents

    • wow they just manipulated you so hard.

  • I want Pewds to be trending...

  • Wow congratulations bud! 😋

  • Hopefully messyourself will react to this