r/Tinder in a nutshell

Опубликовано: 15 мар 2020
Is it just me or are girls using too many face filters?
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  • The only dating app that seems to work is Grindr, so be gay and you should be fine

  • Tinder is a good place to find yourself a nice attractive bot who will send you virus and scam links, someone you can bring home to momma

  • is it just me or has no one ever met a girl on tinder who just wants to have sex? they all want relationships, not one night stands, at least the ones who matched with me anyway

  • I keep having dates constantly on tinder but everytime after i had sex with the date they just become uninterest. I use viagra and i last long enough to make them orgasm so it cant be because bad sex, i also get praised a lot. Maybe females just use tinder to cheat their boyfriends or just want to have some fun and nothing more

  • Any skit that shits on incels and "nice guys" is a winner.

  • ONLY ONE: (other reason) $.. IT'S all about SMV, you got to raise your SMV if you have a low one, and if you are an attractive-buff-shirtless-millionaire, you LITERALLY CAN SAY ANYTHING, you are already on the top of the list. Mind you, if but one OTHER a-b-s-m comes around with 5% more game, YOU ARE OUT, and you are back to fat chicks and banging 4s,5s, and_ 7s..

  • But joel, you’re beautiful!

  • I think mine might have to do with my description: "Hey I decided to get on the tinder finally."

  • The two rules work

  • Well technically...

  • Do Girls?

  • sounds like reddit

  • Gay tinder is trying to force chemistry with guys who are cute but you have little in common with

  • *CLEAN SHIRT* *NEW SHOES*

  • It's true though. How else are you gonna judge people but by looks, when all you have is some photos of them? Also, women deem 80% of guys below average in looks, that's a fact. And for every woman there's like 10 guys on Tinder.

  • Legit, I paid for tinder and met a girl in a week. Sorry, the system is designed to keep you single, unless you pay then its ridiculous how easy it is.

    • @Daniel Jensen it's gambling, tinder is gambling. Speed dating on apps. It helped me but I don't assume its always needed, just hedging your bets.

    • Idk, I don't think it actually helps at all. I've paid for premium or whatever a couple times, but all of the dates I've actually been on have happened when I wasn't paying, and I never really noticed any difference in the number of matches I was getting (although paying for a "boost" does definitely increase matches, they're probably people who would have swiped on you eventually anyway).

  • the fedora really nails it lmao

  • If you're a guy using Tinder and you're having bad luck with it, it's probably because you're a guy using Tinder.

    • Holy crap I had a feeling I was the problem all along but was always too afraid to face reality and admit it . . . Hey Broden get the keys, I'm gettin' a SEX CHANGE!!

  • Another factor is 80% of the users are other dudes

    • @Daniel Jensen No, it's just about the majority of women not going on dating apps. From their perspective they don't feel the need to. I dislike the idea of dating apps also, though I'm a dude. But it seems like these days, meeting someone in person that you want to spend time with would be extraordinarily rare. How are people supposed to find companionship?

    • @Tomas Canevaro No, it's just social conditioning mostly. Men are conditioned to pursue relationships and women are conditioned to be pursued. Obviously not everyone follows those social norms, but most guys buy into it so heavily that it kinda throws off the balance for everyone.

    • @Tomas Canevaro No, an average man cant satisfy an average womans needs. Personal needs, emotionsl needs, social needs etc

    • @Atys hlmes Is it possible maybe that women are just not attracted to men the same way men are attracted to women? I'm honestly beggining to question if straight relationships are a farce that we tolerate because of biology and reproduction.

    • This is a major problem in dating apps. There a lot of "incels" but there are literally gonna be a lot of involuntary celibates because the male to female ratio is completely skewed. If you want to learn more about how Tinder is fucked, look up Ordinary Things video about it

  • Can't lose if you don't play, yeah

  • Did I tell you about the ZZ Top concert?

  • The chant 😆

  • Rule one: Delete your Tinder app! lol.

  • lol. i always thought this was funny. it is be attractive or dont. people dont lash out until they are rejected. so no. youre douchiness post emasculation is not the reason you dont do well on the apps. you need attractive attributes. be good looking. be tall. have money. and if you dont have those, you can always try to simp. test it for yourself. use your regular honest profile. dont be a douche obviously. and watch the rejection ensue. after. make a fake profile. act the exact same way. success!! all of this just by changing a picture and an income. you can be the biggest dick in the world when they dish out rejection. it will not effect your success on the apps if you were truly rejected. but my personal advice is to not respond after the rejection. because there is like a sliver of a chance they will message you another time. but its very unlikely

  • Im not sure i agree with the underlying message of this... tinder is based on a few pictures and almost entirely on attraction, thats a truth.

    • the number one reason girls dont reply is because that yes, they are inundated with messages, and yes, most of them are: "Hi :-)" ... Super boring, and if she had to reply to every "hi :-)" message, she'd be spending her entire day on it. It's a number's games. Also secondly... People who go on Tinder really do it to themselves. I'll never understand people's fascination with shallow inducing media. Such as twitter, tinder, tictoc. Where you have to communicated like cavemen cos everything is limited. Seriously every single time I see these discussions, people always mention that they had better luck on "real" dating sites where you can actually match and communicate like a real human being.

    • Yes, but here's the thing, just because the odds are worse if you're not an 8+, doesn't mean you can not score. Before I met my now girlfriend (on a different app... okcupid) I was also using Tinder and I had a whole bunch of dates. Thing is, I was (still am) heavily overweight at about 130+ kg and didn't hide it on my pictures. I also had a really low paying job and was in debt so it's not like I had SO much self confidence. But I had plenty of matches and dates anyway. I'm not saying that back then I was guaranteed to get laid. I'm saying it was a numbers game and how much time you were willing to put into the app and understanding the algorythm. And since looks aren't just about genetics but also about how you dress and shave or trim etc, it's really not an impossible task to get someone you like to also swipe right on you. Also your location obviously matters. If you're in a smaller town, Tinder is basically worthless unless indeed, you are very attractive. I'm in Berlin so I didn't run out of suggestions after a couple of swipes. It also helped that I spoke English as well as I do in such an international city because that is actually not something to take for granted and so half my dates were with non-germans. So yeah, if you live in bumfuck nowhere, look like smeary balls and have nothing really going for you, you're most likely not going to be doing well on tinder. You have to capitalize on who you are. Also no dick pics, no pictures of you in front of your car, no "cool alcohol drinking" picture and no bathroom selfie. Also a smile won't hurt. And maybe don't write in your profile that you like Anime, even if it is awesome (I know) or that you hate "insert whatever music/movie genre" because imagine there is that really awesome girl and she would be into you but you wrote "I hate country music" or some other dumb shit that doesn't matter in your life and now it's a left swipe. Don't be cheesy. Just be funny, confident and reflective .... -> in your profile text. It's not like I was ACTUALLY funny confident and reflective in reality. Sometimes I was a sweaty mess because the girl was way above my paygrade. As an example, I had this in my profile text and it got the most laughter/replies: "On typical friday night I like to: cry myself to sleep after a fierce round of masturbation." As a final note. Tinder may be dead now anyway. If you are serious about finding someone online, you probably should research for all decent apps and make profiles. You might find that you'll have way more success in one app than in another. Why limit your chances?

  • Increase the soy intake 200%, that PUA character was too real Chad.

  • 69,969 views...?!?!?!?! ООООК.

  • I once got action nonstop for two years and every girl told me the same, It was becouse of my cute cat Lola who atractted them. Now im actually in a serious relationship with a woman i knew from tinder, but even though gorgeus most tinder matches seems to always lack something or come with a unique flaw, just people i Guess, find someone that makes you smile and feel happy after all sex Is in abundancy, the quality Is whats important.

    • @Morgan Kosokowsky yeah Best cat ever.

    • I'm assuming your pfp is lola. I gotta admit, it looks hella fluffy tho,

  • >sets it to women 22 and up within 15 miles >Tinder proceeds to show me exclusively 18 year old girls 40 miles away

  • Ya know as much as I agree, I think im a pretty nice guy and it really does seem to just be a pay wall cuz ahhhh not too lucky with getting matches I will say, and im not atrocious maybe not a laser cut adonis faced soccer guy whatever but light 7 for sure

  • This video created some cancerous commenters lol but also good advisers too

  • Joel just understands every issue in this world and it shows

  • I'm glad more and more people have realized /r/Tinder is basically an incel gateway. They all whine about "women only care about looks and stuff" but they spam memes and sexist lines.

    • Really? I haven't being much there but pretty much everything on the front page is about some type of pun or something stupid.

    • while i agree it's an incel gateway, tinder is not that great for getting dates and most people on the platform care about looks more than anything (i'm talking about every gender here). I never did well on tinder but when i meet someone irl, i don't have that much of an issue getting dates. The rules on tinder of "be attractive" and "don't be unnatractive" is kinda true when you see the amount of matches on those people tinder, even if you suck at conversations it's easy to get a date when you literally can't reach the bottom of your match list.

    • @Connor Wiebe Nope. Hes saying that some people dont get dates because they are shit at being even remotely interesting on tinder and spam shitty messages that lead nowhere or serve to make the females feel uncomfortable.

    • @Eduardo Babyhands Yep. I've literally never met any other type of incel than the one you just mentioned.

    • "I hate women and talk down to them because I think they belong the kitchen - why do women not like dating me?!"

  • Isn't that basically 96% of what Tinder is? Be attractive or else.

    • yes, but it's because it's a fucksite that some people try to use as a dating app.

  • Joel being a simp

    • Sad how many people think he has a good take on this

    • Uh ohhh - he touched a nerve

  • you forgot the part where whenever you get a match they don't respond or straight up undo it cause your greeting wasn't spectacular enough or you were just a mistake and break your heart giving you hope just to crush it while you literally just wanna find a cool girl and be loved haha dope video though fuckin pathetic simps am i rite

    • @talldude1412 Standard deflections to any criticism of women's shitty behavior. Well parroted.

    • God, it's an app. You haven't met them, no one owes anyone anything on there. Your insecurity is substantial, which isn't helping your situation either.

    • A lot of them don't actually want to meet you, they just want the validation of having matched. It makes them feel desirable.

    • Most accurate

  • I really don't see the problem so many people here seem to have with apps like tinder. Of course if you get matched, it is probably because of your looks and how you present yourself. It just does not make sense to give everyone a chance on dating apps, it would be immensely time consuming.

    • I’ve swiped right on less attractive people because their bio was good

  • I got an add for a "weird and new easy trick to make any woman unbelievably turned on instantly" before this Video. Sounds legit, thanks RU-tv

  • Every video you make is gold

  • maybe its more because over 75% of users on tinder are men rather than the fault of guys on the app

    • Back when I used Tinder I fucked like a wild man. It helps that I’m Bi though...oh I also have a well rounded personality and I’m a mature adult.

    • keep telling yourself that

  • I fucking love you

  • If you think a "pickup line" is going to make up for your face, you are seriously delusional.

    • @Hunter Smith No. The video is specifically about defending the notion that how you approach people in online dating is of paramount importance. More important than even your looks.

    • I don’t think that’s what he was getting at dude

  • Tinder ad right before the video. Hmm.

  • Good job grouping up all the incels in one comment section, Joel. Now drop that nuke.

  • i thought that said r/tumblr and i was so lost the entire time lmaoo

  • Nothing will crush your soul like seeing a women's tinder matches, dear Christ she had 545 of them. I was feeling good cause I had 15 at the time.

    • @a very chronic tonic Your chances are higher than you'd think. Most of these 900s of message are shitty "lets fuck" messages, "you're cute" messages, "Hi" messages or pointless questions that lead nowhere. All you literally have to do is be a bit more engaging and inspired than these messages.

    • @Aint Falco wait you want to date the people who are "socially distancing"? Then how's she supposed to meet you? Fuck this scamdemic

    • @Anna Simpson I just gave up on dating apps, and I wish I was gay. I understand men allot more, than I understand women. Also i talked to her about the number she said, pretty much the same thing as you did.

    • getting 545 matches is great in theory but in reality it makes it impossible to ever find someone you actually like. men on tinder don't get any attention and women get nonstop, horrifying levels attention that they can't shut off. reason #24 that I'm glad I'm gay

    • @Cam Bryan I mean it's good you found a stable relationship, many guys abuse their chad powers.

  • Okay, one more.

  • If somebody doesn't like you based on your physical appearance, just cut them out. No point in arguing, nobody's going to change their minds. Just leave. Unless you want that sweet, sweet Reddit Gold.

  • nice guys™

  • Woman: I want you to bone me Guy: *makes star wars reference* r/tinder: epic star wars funny meme star wars R2D2 GEBERAL KENOBI U R BOLD MAN

    • And they wonder why no one wants to see them naked.

  • Just b yourself

  • Hey hold on you took those rules from the shy boys documentary you hack

  • I don't really get the joke here.

    • It's funny because it's true

    • It's a parody of the forum/subreddit www.reddit.com/r/tinder. It's not about the dating app.

    • It’s too advanced for you

  • Dude holy crap no way, the ZZ top. that song was and is stuck in my head for the past 2 days thank u so much. On my mama.

  • Well I didn't get single match in the last 3 months. It's surely my personality

    • @Tim Slee before they decide to swipe left*

    • Yes, you just gotta find some way to project your entire positive personality through a single image that only get's the attention of girls for 2 seconds before they decide to either swipe right or left.

  • Step one to performing 99% worse than an average woman on tinder: have a penis

  • Thank goodness you taught me the rules I thought it might be my boring personality or lack of enthusiasm, now I know it's just because I'm ugly, phew.

    • ugly af* Yea bro always got yo back

    • @Jack P You had the opportunity to make an argument and didn't. What does that tell us?

    • @Taxtro you're arrogant, hateful and also unintelligent, so you have one over on him

    • @N G You deny the ugliness of ugly people in order to hate them and blame them for their own problems.

    • @Taxtro I don't know who you think you are helping my dude, you're the one calling people ugly

  • Oh yes, amazing straw man argument. Well done for your cringe shit video lads.

    • Is someone sad because they can’t get any poontang?

  • i kinda want a video where the girls from tinder show up on the date and they have duck-face in real life

    • Did you come from the year 2009? Who does “duckface” anymore?

    • Trying searching up “irl duckface”

  • its called tinder because they will burn in heck

  • i don't know why i'm only seeing this now but joel this is like an et tu brute type moment

  • The first rule of Tinder is give Tinder money

    • Y’all listen here tinder really fuckign sucks whether your attractive, ugly, have zero matches, or hundreds, can we all agree it’s the most terrible shit ever... unless I’m really just that lame of a person that even though I’m hot enough to get hundreds of matches nobody likes me, I can’t really believe that though... I think tinder is the worst possible way to experience dating for literally everyone involved

    • That’s why you should use Hinge. The hype is real.

    • Nah don’t give them money it’s a scam.

    • @Supremeghost I thought I was the only one who felt psychologically attacked by this kinda bullshit. Don't give into desperation my guy just use Facebook.

    • Actually in my experience paying for a subscription basically doesn't help at all, I've had more matches when I'm not paying than the couple of times I've tried it for a month. Being able to rewind an accidental swipe is really the only good feature, otherwise it isn't really worth it at all.

  • This one is my favorite. Surreal, funny, super memorable. "All the rules of dating app" Keep it coming. Highly enjoyable.

  • Don't get me wrong what r/tinder is doing is weird as fuck. But looks really are the only thing determining whether you'll be successful on those apps.

    • i don't understand why people are still denying this and are calling people incels for it.

    • @Mule The Donkey I don't expect them to actually leave youtube, don't overthink this. lol

    • @Mule The Donkey I was addressing a simple fact, I didn't need to write an essay to prove my point. Calling people incels isn't an argument.

    • @Tim Slee Well, if the comment was a complaint, like "well nobody wants to have sex with me because of looks", itd make sense, or its just a matter of fact opinion etc. And not everything has to be a great argument, saying "you're dumb now leave youtube" isn't much of an argument, do you expect them to leave specifically because you said that?

    • @Trist in Sox Calling people Incels is a great argument, truly shows your superior intellect. Now piss off.

  • Now become a bitter and twisted 20 something who sits in a dark room in front of a laptop, chain smoking, masterbating to porn, and telling all your online friends how much you hate women.

  • Lol the people getting defensive in the comments...

    • @Javi del Val Sorry you don't get laid

    • @Javi del Val mad

    • yeah joel haver is a semipopular youtuber so there's no debating him he's the absolute truth in anything he expresses

    • @BananaRepublican i highly doubt they get to that stage but okay

    • I mean if you believe that "pickup lines" will get you laid, that's your time you are wasting. There is no evidence for that.

  • i mean, u do have to b attractive lol

  • tinder is a hellscape of modern "app" development that is designed to tug users along strings until they purchase goodboypoints to make endorphine feel good when match. It's not for dating, they don't really want success out of their users. it's also a part of commodification of human interaction lole

    • @Dennis19901 lol how many livelihoods survive off mens loneliness

    • @Danny Carr Because you can make more money by milking your users. And with users I mean: Lonely men

    • This but unironically

    • @Danny Carrpretty much. Scammers want to make money as easily as possible, which means not spending it.

    • I think Instagram has the potential to make an accessory feature to beat Tinder. Most of the time, people will ask for your IG account to check you out sooner or later. Never tried Facebook Dating but FB is lame to begin with. I have gone to about 20 coffee dates & more since the lockdown rules in my area have allowed meeting people. Right now, some potential dates look promising but if everything fails I think I'm better with IG dating 'game' than Tinder after this.

  • Kinda true but not really the main rule is still to just to be attractive

  • I love this. People really fail to see that they're being rejected because they are shitty people not how they look. Have you ever looked outside. So many ugly people are in relationships.

    • Believe it or not dating apps are a completely different environment than from real life.

    • and even when that is the reason, nobody has to have sex with anyone, yes, for most people, touching attractive people is fun, and they dont have an obligation to help someone's ego. *To incels, I say "so you can want an attractive parter, but women cant?"*

    • It's an app that comodifies human sexual interaction, personality comes last on an app like Tinder. And don't pretend that looks aren't important, we're all guilty for being judgmental of peoples looks at least subconsciously.

    • @Alex Johansen I think swiping right on a very low percentage only makes sense. Else you would end up with hundreds of matches with people that you don't really find attractive or care to meet. I do the same, I'm super picky and swipe right very rarely but at least when I match I'm actually looking forward to get to know the person.

    • @Alex Johansen honestly part of it is due to the difference in framing. i have my tinder set to both men & women. i swipe on a lot more women because their profiles seem more interesting, weird, funny, well-posed & well-shot photos. a lot of the straight male profiles i see are of them holding dead animals, pictures of cars, pictures at frat parties, weirdly lit pictures, or no photos/bio that show any kind of personality/interest etc. kind of off-putting imo. i don't mind some of those interests when meeting in real life, but if that's the image they're choosing to display, it can come off wrong. obvs i can't see straight women on the app though, maybe that's the case for them too. i have definitely heard sooo many women complain about the fish pictures though.

  • This is pretty bluepilled tbh. Hypergamy is a thing and looks matter, especially online.

    • @Maxiluc Covid hasn't been agreeing with that plan for the last year, lmao.

    • Hypergamy isn’t about looks, it’s about social status.

    • @Bass Canon Quit pretending that agreeing with you makes people sexually successful. It doesn't.

    • "take the red pill jimmy"

    • imagine posting this comment and thinking your looks are the problem

  • GIMME ALL YOUR LOVIN'. ALL YOUR HUGS AND KISSES, TOOOO!!!

  • How many dings was it? Less than 24?

  • i hate women so much. why do they hate me?

    • I can't tell if there are people in this thread who honestly thought that Liz was being serious

    • Two thousand likes

    • @Luci_In_The_Sky I agree with you in general that self-loathing is the ultimate turn-off but I do think dating apps are a bit cancerous for our brains as a species, in a similar way that social media is. There are some people who think that a dating app allows them to be more picky because they have potentially better options. In other words if you lived in a small town before the internet, you probably would have married someone in that town, but now that dating apps are available you might think you can date the hottest most successful guy, or some amazing model, in the next city over. And so this one attractive person gets a million hits from people they're probably never going to be interested in, while everyone else gets ignored.

    • @Jane Goodall bro, not appreciating our short kings

    • @Kaiser I have seen runway models and I've also seen girls walking around in Walmart that a hundred times prettier than those models. Girls put those standards on themselves and women and gay men make the fashions; regular guys are very reasonable. Women really are the only sex that have ultra high standards that includes both aesthetic and practical demands on men. You're trying to put self-made female standards down on men when it's really the women that perpetuate and create their own standards.

  • fucking perfection

  • Dude clearly isn't following rule 2

  • you really know where to hit me where it hurts.

  • The algorithm has blessed me with this channel, I hope to see some serious channel growth over next year

    • yeah this growth is both ridiculous and well deserved

    • 350k 2 days later, keeper movin

    • @Gabe Edstrom Same here, it's crazy.

    • @Thomas Yeah it happened so quick I didn't realize it happened until recently lol

    • I would consider that a jump from 30k subscribers to 250k on about a week is some serious channel growth already

  • tinder like hanging out at the mall for 2 hours like its 2006?

    • @baron white I was a kid in the 80s and a teen in the 90s. The food court was an actual place to meet girls, and dudes in their 40s hanging out at the mall without kids was weird then too. Also, I'd go to the hobby shop, bookstore and arcade, then bitch about how it was hard to meet girls. But fortunately guys like me have the internet now :D

    • @baron white Early 20s was ok but once you got to like 24 or so yea not so much...I take that any day over these Apps...Had some good times back then..

    • Ye the mall was more of a 80's or 90's thang for adults, after that 00's it was only for teens.

    • In my 20s this was a thing..Talking back in the mid 90s here...I would have preferred hanging at the mall...lol

    • A man in their 40's narrowly avoiding the sex offenders register? Sure.

  • Why do you have to be so spot on in every single thing you make. Curse you for being so perfect.

    • That's such one sided logic and you basically put all women into one lifeless bucket. If anything, connectivity has allowed people to find partners with similar interests, even niche ones, that they wouldn't have otherwise. You basically assumed all girls care about the same exact thing, meaning money, muscles, etc. That just isn't true. If anything, societies emphasis on hyper masculinity has made many men feel they aren't enough. Just like how women compare themselves to other women, men do the same and it takes a toll on confidence that would have otherwise attracted a woman.

    • @Taxtro okay but you didn't say "some people have things in common even" you said >"I'm going to assume that the effects of anything but looks and stature are negligible." which translates to "I'm going to assume that effects of anything but looks and stature are the only things that matter and everything else is moot" which just isn't true my dude. as for the guys on R/Tinder, sure they're "Online dating" but they're gonna meet up irl, they still have to talk with people and display their personalities in order to even arrange a date irl. obviously looks and stature aren't the only defining things in a relationship if all relationships were really so shallow there'd be no way for Romance movies to exist because they'd just show people who are sexy and successful fucking. There is depth and a passion to love and romance.

    • @phunkyzilla >You state that “everyone has a unique personality” but apply a blanket conclusion that only stature and looks contribute to relationships or romance. I didn't say that. I said that other factors are negligible in online dating. But even if I did, that would be no contradiction. People being unique doesn't mean they can't have anything in common. Cats have unique personalities as well, still there is things almost all cats have in common. All positive integers are distinguishable, but they are all larger than 0.

    • @Taxtro well your own logic negates your conclusions. You state that “everyone has a unique personality” but apply a blanket conclusion that only stature and looks contribute to relationships or romance. Relationships are nuanced and can’t really be put into words, trust me when I say I’ve had lots of sex and lots of relationships and being interesting and genuine which are facets of personality is definitely something that will make you more attractive in a way that is deeper than “looks or status”, there’s no way to sum up the reasons people love or the circumstances that cause love to grow. I just think as someone who believes we should always be improving that you can really improve your way of thinking here to a way that better represents the reality of things, life is not just logic but passion and happenstance, people say life is meaningless but really life is incredibly interconnected, everything gradually makes everything happen. Also personal hygiene is important for even the most casual of relationships I’d say. Most people don’t like stinky people.

    • @phunkyzilla The divide is not between viceral attractiveness + approaching well and all of that other stuff. The divide is between viceral attractiveness and approaching well + all of that other stuff. I see absolutely no evidence of anyone seriously looking for a relationship being not groomed well. I see no evidence of clever approaches making a difference. Everyone has a unique personality and I don't see how to arange them in a hierarchy nor how they should be determined from a tinder profile. So until some evidence for any of those comes in, I'm going to assume that the effects of anything but looks and stature are negligible.

  • here is the true explanation: ALL dating apps/sites have 99% men 1% women. Don't blame yourself that women don't talk to you... they don't even bother signing up.

    • @Kiera Haggarty that's funny, no guy I know ever sends dick pics to random women. Their girlfriends when sexting, maybe, but not random women. When I made a profile to see the truth, there were no dickpics... UNLESS... you keep talking to the ocasional obvious pervert. It also depends what you put on your profile, you have to get it through your head that showing cleavage is the same as a guy showing his 6 pack abs. Or hairy fat belly. Except a lot more accentuated. A lot of women show boobs, show provocative postures, put words that can be taken either way "I'm just here for fun" or worst of all: empty profiles. Did you ever think that maybe the decent guys don't message you, and only creeps message you... is because the decent guys are not interested in you? What did you put in your profile? "I like music, reading books, having fun, watching movies... I love my family... etc, don't judge me, just message me", maybe the site was obviously for perverted creeps, or maybe you're just exaggerating things and victimizing yourself because women love to do that. I'm not talking here as a guy with no experience. I can't call women out on their bullshit but I can sure as hell do it in this tiny corner of the internet. Nobody's gonna tell you this because, let's be honest, you're just gonna cry about it, say I'm wrong, say it's my fault and block me. Take a step back and stop blaming men 24/7 and making up lies. If it was true, you'd get dick pics 24/7 from your work colleagues, youtuber people, facebook... but somehow you expect me to believe it ONLY happened on this one site?... right.

    • @llVIU I don’t know if it happens “rarely.” I was on, I don’t think it was even a dating app exactly, just a socialising one, and within a week I had over 200 messages of guys just sending me dickpics and wanting nudes. About half wouldn’t accept no for an answer, and from what I hear, that’s not an unusual occurrence

    • @llVIU Well one of the problems is she felt entitled and often did not want to pay her way. When asked she would act shocked. Claiming that no one else made her pay. Although you have to realize its sometimes a mind game. For example with my X i never paid anything that kind of games. Or in my country women dont pay. Guess what your not in your country now...She tried lot of these little mind games like this..She was trying to have her cake and eat it. Yea so i started making her pay at times. At one point after we broke up she admitted to having 60K ( US) in her acct. Besides this i wasnt going to let someone i just met move in with me. Ive had friends do this and it always ends in disaster! I very briefly before her dated another woman with the same men have to pay attitude. Almost immediately she started asking for stuff and kicked her to curve. Basically my X was trying to hold on to her $ while she built herself up...I wasnt having it...Primarily we broke up because we argued too much and her flighty type of behavior..She wound up moving in with some weird old white dude but claims hes just helping her out....

    • @LetsGo Now your story could go either way, it's a question of what you have to offer and what you want. I would be ok with having an unemployed girlfriend, it's a minus if she doesn't help financially but I got plenty of faults too, nobody's perfect and if you want a relationship, you have to compromise and be flexible (between you and me, especially when it comes to women). If you don't want a gold digger that's fine, but most of them are (and deny it) example: nice house, nice car, take her to dinner, pay for her, pay for the movie, pay for your own gas when you drive, give her gifts on name day/birthday/christmas/ne year/in romania we even have 1st march and 7th march which you are VERY expected to give her gifts/flowers, women's day and also wedding anniversary, take her to holiday trips, list goes on and on. Meanwhile I'm sitting here unemployed due to the government lockdown. I can barely afford to live in a rent (barely 2 square meters) and buy food. Yeah, no thanks, I think I'm gonna skip women this year as well.

    • @llVIU My X used OLD to basically bounce around from place to place...She tried to move in with me but yea i wsnt having it...Dated for a year...Eventually she found some old weird dude to move in with...Although claims hes just helping her out..

  • I honestly hate r/Tinder so much. and Reddit in general is pretty cringe. Just a buncha 14yo's giving each other "dating advice" lmao

    • @Brendan McNally Reddit is one massive echo chamber where everyone starts foaming at the mouth as soon as they hear anything that conflicts with their echo chamber. The website itself is great, but the overwhelming majority of it's users are stuck with a tribalistic caveman brain apparently.

    • @Kwyjibo O_o I’ve been on Reddit for around 6 years now. Place is a shit show.

    • @Brendan McNally The good subs are all dying out.

    • @Ye Boi with ya 100% big dog. You still got shooters out here ace

    • sir, you win the internet for today, an updoot for you kind stranger

  • I really wish I found this channel sooner

    • saame

    • My thoughts exactly. Almost a week ago, not exactly. Just glad we finally arrived! Took a chance on a mundane looking thumbnail, and discovered gold.

    • Atleast you found it!

  • I love the recurring zz top, I saw those guys up at the casino, the lights were amazing

    • sorry bud, free speech is allowed online

    • like that one...but more

    • @Davi8R no cursing plz

    • They came by my state last year and they fcking rocked

    • the what? the lights? ahhh yaaa yaaa wish I coulda been

  • Tru but tankfully I fit most if not all dthe criteria listed above

  • Amazing

  • 0:34 relatable